One of the many books that has influenced the work I do around courageous or challenging conversations is Crucial Conversations, which I often describe to clients as a little corny in places, but definitely worth reading!
I recently came across this quiz on the authors' website, which is designed to help you reflect on your typical response in situations where the stakes are high, emotions run strong, and opinions vary (the 3 ingredients of a crucial conversation). While clearly trying to encourage a purchase, it's a good opportunity to step back and reflect on the extent to which you might engage in silence (withdrawing, avoiding, masking your true feelings) or violence (labelling, attacking, controlling) in these situations. A caveat from me - the word "violence" is pretty strong, but really just refers to becoming defensive and critical of others when feeling threatened.
As an FYI you don't have to share your details or sign up to take the quiz, which you can find here.